The right way to get a favor – networking

This “Tip” and dozens of others come from Larry Litwin’s The ABCs of Strategic Communication (available on www dot larry litwin dot com). [To comment: larry at larry litwin dot com.]

Effective networking is the proactive solution. If you think ahead and network well, asking for a favor can be an easy, natural thing to do. Sometimes you may find that you don’t even need to ask.

Here are a few easy ways to maintain your relationships so that favors come easily:

  1. Get organized
  • Keep track of your contacts whichever way works best for you.

You can use computer databases, PDAs or even index cards.

  • Keep track of birthdays, anniversaries and other miscellaneous information.
  • Know your contacts’ needs, such as information, jobs and other contacts.
  1. Keep in touch
  • Review your contact list regularly and make a follow up plan.
  • Send notes and cards on occasions such as birthdays and


  • Regularly call and set up lunch meetings or dinner appointments.
  1. Nurture mutually beneficial relationships
  • Send any helpful information to your contacts.
  • Connect your contacts with others who can help them.
  • Use your skills to help others.

If you care for your network of friends, colleagues and acquaintances, it will be your best resource. Whether the favor you need is information, a job referral, technical help or even more clients, the best solution is a strong network. Most importantly, always remember to say thank you with an E-mail, a hand-written note, or a gift.

Source: Andrea Nierenberg – The Nierenberg Group

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[To comment: larry at larry litwin dot com.]